it’s okay when you’re bi and don’t feel like you like different genders equally. it’s okay when you’re bi and have a preference. it’s okay when you’re bi and like different genders for different reasons. it’s okay when you’re bi and your attraction isn’t 50/50 for everything. you’re not broken, and aren’t a “fake bisexual” because you don’t fit into the stereotype. it’s okay.
don’t just let boys be feminine. Let MEN be feminine. Grown-ass men. Hairy, fat, old, muscular, unattractive, disabled, etc.
The ones that aren’t young, thin, hairless, conventionally attractive twinks. Let them be feminine too.
Without making it weird and fetish-ey, for fuck’s sake. Think y’all can manage that?
a conversation can be so much more than just talking. when we speak with someone, we’re engaging with every layer of their soul. their wounds, their dreams, their love, their trauma, their hopes — when we learn to see beyond the surface, a conversation transforms into a dance. there’s power in listening to someone’s entire being and there’s healing in allowing someone to listen to ours.
